Confused on husbands reactions to newborn twins?

There's something going on in that head of his. You really need to sit down and have a heart to heart talk with him soon and see whats the matter. Explain to him your side of the story about needing the help from him around the house and also that the children need the affection of their father as well as you do too. Sounds like he had high expectations of what the babies were going to be and or who they were going to resemble. In any event, just tell him you want to talk, no fighting of course, but that your just concerned about how he's been acting lately and that he's normally not like this.