Vibrator vs Real Thing?

It depends completely on what your girlfriend prefers- I have a small vibrator and i prefer that to having my boyfriend finger me as i'm extra sensitive down there and it hurts. Between vibrator and his er.. member i prefer him to the max though :p But for a tip, why don't YOU use the vibrator? Biggest turn on ever was when my boyfriend discovered mine and used it on me ;) Either way i'd try not to be jealous and find a compromise- i love my vibrator, but i love my man much more :)